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幼儿篇（66）潜移默化

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[ 2005-12-19 22:25:00 | By: 梦帆 ]

2005年12月19日　周一

昨天8晚上点多，浩然到睡觉时间了，我让他去睡觉。他爸爸想教他下五子棋多让孩子玩一会儿，我和他爸爸发了脾气，浩然乖乖跟我去睡觉。但浩然脱衣服时的一句话引起我的反思，他说：“妈妈你发脾气了，可你说过不能随便发脾气”。

孩子就是父母的一面镜子，无意识的行为、语言、情绪都会潜移默化的影响孩子，并在孩子身上表现出来。父母常打孩子，孩子就有了暴力倾向；父母常发脾气，孩子也会脾气暴跌、情绪失控；父母常在微机上玩游戏孩子将来也必定上瘾；父母好学上进孩子也会热爱学习。孩子是父母的镜子，父母是孩子的榜样。今后我要尽可能地孩子面前控制自己的情绪，在孩子心中树立一个开朗乐观、好学上进、坚持锻炼的形象，营造和睦的家庭环境。

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